
Choosing a burial location for your family is an important matter to consider. Make sure you are not easily swayed by the various attractive offers from companies.
You need to be wise in choosing a location that is comfortable and safe as a grave site. This article will give you tips on choosing a burial plot for your family.
Tips for Choosing a Family Burial Location or Plot
Here are some tips to keep in mind when looking for a safe plot for your family's burial.
1. Know the Size of the Grave
The first thing you should do is find out the size of the grave offered by the company. Generally, graves come in various sizes and types, from single to family. If you need a grave for your family, choose one with a larger size.
When choosing the plot size, you also need to consider the number of family members. This is because the family type plots come in various sizes with a capacity of 6 to 7 people.
If your family has more than 7 people, you can buy 2 family type plots that are located next to each other.
2. Choose a Strategic Location
Besides considering the size of the grave, when choosing a burial plot you should also be wise in selecting a strategic location. This means the location you choose should not be far from your home and should be easy for you to reach.
A strategic location will make it easy for you to visit or pay respects at the grave. Moreover, a nearby location will allow you to visit more often without waiting a long time.
If you are used to driving a four-wheeled vehicle, it is best to choose a location you can access by car, to make it easier for you to visit the grave.
3. Choose a Location That Fits Your Religion
In general, family burial sites have the characteristics of their respective religions. For example, grave concepts based on Feng Shui, which draw on Chinese beliefs, Christian burial concepts, and burial concepts of the Islamic faith.
Therefore, when choosing a burial plot, you need to understand the characteristics of that burial site. Although many graves have a mixed concept drawing on various religions, it is best to choose one that matches your religion, because the grave provider may not fully accommodate your religious needs.
This is very important to consider, especially for Islam, which has many provisions in the burial process, such as ritual washing according to Islamic law, the grave facing the qibla, and so on. If you choose a general public cemetery, the services may not be in accordance with Islamic law.
4. Consider the Cost of the Grave
Knowing the cost of a family burial is also important when selecting a plot. Generally, strategic and comfortable locations will require a larger budget, especially if there are good and satisfying services for grave users.
However, keep in mind that a high price does not necessarily mean good service or facilities. Therefore, be careful and look for the various promotions offered to save on expenses. You can also research the price of coffins in advance to fit your budget.
5. Choose a Grave Free of Rental and Daily Maintenance Fees
Before buying a burial plot for your family, consider the rental and daily maintenance costs. Make sure you do not choose a location that requires you to pay an annual rent, because payments that are late will pile up. Choose a certified grave with maintenance care for the long term.
6. Survey the Burial Plot Location
When you want to buy something, it is certainly better to see the product you will buy rather than only looking at pictures. Just like buying a burial plot, it is best that you visit or survey the location.
Some places do offer online stores so buyers can place orders online, but the information will certainly be more complete if it is explained directly at the location while you look at the plot you wish to buy.
When conducting a survey, you also have the chance to ask about many things such as the price, site access, grave size, orientation, and so on. Make sure that, before carrying out the survey, you first book an appointment with a marketing officer.
You can also ask friends or relatives who have experience buying a burial plot beforehand. It is worth doing this to better understand the purchasing process so you avoid making mistakes.
When conducting the survey of the site, you should also take photos of the plots you are considering, then discuss them with your family to decide which plot to buy.
The Law on Buying a Burial Plot
Now that you know some tips for choosing a grave site, you should also understand the law on buying a plot for family members who have not yet passed away, especially if you are Muslim.
In principle, the ruling on buying a grave for someone who is still alive depends on the intention behind it. If the purpose is only to separate the family's graves from the public cemetery, this does not align with Islamic law (sharia).
However, if the purpose is so that the deceased may receive prayers from others who visit, then this is permissible. Another good purpose is buying a plot to prepare a dignified burial for your family, which you can do if the public cemetery is no longer suitable.
For Muslims who wish to remain in line with sharia, avoid mixing graves with those of other religions. Beyond the law on buying a burial plot, you should also learn about the proper procedures for burying the deceased to make sure the burial service provider delivers the appropriate service.
Do You Understand the Tips for Finding a Burial Plot for Your Family?
These are some of the steps you should take if you want to buy a plot for your family's burial. Make sure to buy from a trusted provider such as kamboja that will deliver the best service for your grave and your family.
We hope this is helpful.
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The Kamboja team writes guides on bereavement, funeral arrangements and funeral planning to help families in Indonesia.


